5 painfully ineffective leadership styles

http://www.beckershospitalreview.com/hospital-management-administration/5-painfully-ineffective-leadership-styles.html

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Though there are many different leadership styles one can employ to inspire exceptional performance, poor leadership can have devastating effects on the morale and productivity of an organization, according to Entrepreneur.

Listed below are five ineffective leadership styles to avoid avoid if you hope to have a high-performing organization.

  1. Reactive leaders often wait to act until action has already occurred, in which case they are playing catch-up to leaders who had the confidence to plan ahead for expected outcomes.
  2. Overly optimistic leaders take the healthy virtue of optimism too far, thinking so positively that they fail to account for situations where their employees or organization may fall short. They may also trust their extreme optimism over the facts at hand, which contradict their gut assumptions.
  3. Controlling leaders don’t give their employees room to succeed on their own and insist on having a hand in every aspect of their organization. By not trusting people to do their jobs, all a controlling leader does is create more inefficiency and suffocate talent.
  4. Distant leaders do not connect with their employees, who like to feel as though their boss knows them and are often inspired to do better when they feel a leader is personally invested in their success.
  5. Narcissistic leaders inevitably alienate subordinates by taking credit for the success of the team, which makes employees feel less valued. This can make employees less motivated to work hard on the next project if they know their contributions will get swept under the rug.

Leading with Control Versus Leading with Influence

http://www.leadershipdigital.com/edition/daily-leadership-management-2017-05-10?open-article-id=6560474&article-title=leading-with-control-versus-leading-with-influence&blog-domain=ronedmondson.com&blog-title=ron-edmondson

Let me be honest. I can be a controlling person. It’s part of my character. I know that. I test that way with StrengthsFinders. If no one is taking charge, I’ll take over the room. (And, not because I’m extroverted. I’m not.) If we both come to a four-way stop at the same time – as nice as I try to be and as much as I love others – I won’t stall long for you to decide if you’re going. It’s just how I’m wired. If the leader isn’t in the room, I’ll lead.

I think my team, however – or at least I hope – would tell you I don’t perform as a controlling leader. Some may even wish I controlled more. It’s been a long process to discipline myself not to respond how I am naturally inclined to do.

Leaders, if you want to to have a healthy team environment, you must learn to control less and influence more. The differences are measured in the results of creating a healthy team.

I have learned thought that successful leaders understands the difference in leading with influence and leading with control.

Here’s what I mean by the results of controlling versus influence:

In an organization where control is dominant:

  • The leader’s ideas win over the team’s ideas – every time.
  • The team follows, but only out of necessity (for a paycheck) – not willingly.
  • Change happens through fear and intimidation – not motivation.
  • People are managed closely – rather than led.
  • Team members feel unappreciated and often under-utilized – rather than empowered.
  • The organization is limited to the skills and ability of the controlling leader – not the strength of a team.
  • Passion is weak – burnout is common.

But,

In an organization where influence is dominant:

  • The ultimate goal is what’s best for the organization, not an individual.
  • Team spirit develops as relationships and trust grow.
  • Willing followers, and other leaders, are attracted to the team.
  • Leadership recruitment and development is a continued endeavor.
  • Change is promoted through desire and motivation, not obligation.
  • The organization has the expanded resources of a team of unique individuals.
  • People feel empowered and appreciated.

Leaders, take your pick – control or influence. You can’t have it both ways. One will always be more dominant. Granted, I could write a whole blog post (and, I have) on the messiness of leading by influence. There will often be confusion, lack of clarity, and misunderstandings. It comes when all the rules aren’t clearly defined. This, however, is a tension to be managed not a problem to be solved. (I think Andy Stanley said that first.)

When it comes to creating organizational health – influence will always trump control. Every time.

Have you ever been or worked for a controlling leader?

Have you been in an environment where influence is dominant?

Which did you prefer?